You can be happy.

 "Happiness is free they say", yet you see unhappy people around. As a girl/woman who has a lot of natural " dealings " to deal with,how can you find true happiness? Well,happiness is everywhere, around us,within us,just set yourself free and connect. Though,this seem unachievable in a world filled with things that makes the heart bleed, once you cannot help the situation, try to be happy. Bellow are some steps.

1.Acknowledge God,through Jesus,and let the Holy Spirit take control. Our God is a good God, talk to HIM always, be "good and clean",HIS  presence will always be with you,though he allows some unfavorable things to happen either to us or around us,HE is still faithful. Without God,I wonder where we would be by now. Acknowledge Jesus Christ of Nazareth, and the Holy Spirit always. Communing with them gives a atmosphere.

2.Face yourself immediately you wake up every morning before the normal morning routine. If you're a girl/woman from some parts of Africa,you will agree with me that life is not too easy for us as females,though it's part of us now, somehow,we start fixing a lot of things immediately we wake up in the morning,and somehow forget the most important thing " you". Use some minutes to focus on yourself, I mean freshen up! Then,other things follows. You will be happy when people look at you with approval just because  you look neat and presentable.

3. Stay away from people that make you angry. Is this actually possible? Yes,it is. You can distance yourself away from people who make you unhappy, surround yourself with people who bring you out of bad moods,people who make you happy. You're entitle to your own happiness, so,choose wisely the kind of people you associate with.

4.Create you own environment of happiness. You can create a happy environment for yourself by watching comedy movies, listening to music that uplift the soul,singing joyful songs,or reading books that make you happy. Some of these things things look common, but they actually help in giving one this feeling of happiness.

5.Keep yourself busy with what you love doing. What's that one thing you love doing the most, either alone or with people around? Such things takes your mind far away from things that make you unhappy. Getting busy with what you love create this feeling of fulfilment thereby giving you this feeling of happiness. 

6.Let go of what you can't change. As a girl/woman,there are things that cannot be changed no matter the sad face and worries. Why not let such situations go? Your worries cannot solve it,pray and try to let it go. Once you let go, happiness will come crawling in.

7.Be yourself always. Be yourself always,do not change who you're or what's on your mind to please people and  displease yourself. you will become unhappy while they will go on and be happy. Do not say yes when you mean to say no in your dealings you know yourself more than any other person. Make yourself happy.  Just do the right thing always, be real to yourself and all.

8.Do not put your happiness on anyone or anything. (Do not depend on anyone or anything for your happiness). Only God is dependable. Humans and all created things can fail,and sometimes,when they fail, it's very painful, your happiness may never be regained again because of that. So,be careful.

When you do these simple things, you will discover that happiness is actually free,stay true to yourself, let go of what you can't change, and keep yourself busy always with what you love doing the most always. Always put God first in all you do.